Outside of the South I feel like it's generally used only when talking to strangers. Like if you work at a store and your talking to a customer or if you're trying to stop someone you don't know on the street.
That's so interesting! People expect to hear ma'am or sir where I'm from (especially after church) and it is SO RUDE not too. I mean, it's like, how old people get their respect. They will just huff at you and gossip to their friends if you don't.
Beware old people gossip. BEWARE!!! They will tell fucking EVERYONE YOU KNOW and your grandma will bring it up ALL THE FUCKING TIME (at least until someone else's grandchild fucks up and then you're in the clear.)
So it's best just to be polite in the first place. Y'all.
See up in the North East [or at least my part of the New England], we just say "Excuse me," when trying to get a strangers attention, other than that I don't really hear that often o3o I think only little children say "Mister" or "Miss"
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I must be a really impolite person because I rarely ever say sir or ma'am OTLno subject
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I never really say it either.
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Yeah, it seems like the norm.
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Beware old people gossip. BEWARE!!! They will tell fucking EVERYONE YOU KNOW and your grandma will bring it up ALL THE FUCKING TIME (at least until someone else's grandchild fucks up and then you're in the clear.)
So it's best just to be polite in the first place. Y'all.
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