Yea, in real life Yao wasn't really much of a brother nor wanted to be. It's just that other "siblings" seemed to look up to him.

I've never been to HK actually, all the times my parents went back they never brought me ;__; so I'm still saving up for it haha. Everything I know about Chinese customs, and that's not much, either comes from tv or what I hear from relatives.

All of my immediate family and relatives are all in Canada so we're also not too close to family in China or HK, just the phonecalls here and there. Hmm I've actually never thought about the divide between both worlds, though I definitely think it's more interesting to live in both. For me, I live in one and only hear about the other OTL